Cameron is reading, writing, and doing math. Crazy. I just gave birth to him, you know? I had my first, "Uh oh. This is real life now" moment last week.
They just started show and tell at school, and he brought up that he wished he had something cool to bring to school for show and tell. I started going down the infinite list of cool things in abundance in our house, but he was still looking discouraged. "But no one else will think those things are cool."
Boo. You fight it off as long as you can, but it comes anyways. All the memories of fitting in, worrying about what friends think (who am I kidding, not much has changed) come flooding back, and I am struck with the panic of how to sheild him from this, how to make it stop.
And I just can't. All I can do is give the pep talk of all pep talks, boost his coolness factor as much as I can with my wisdom, and send him on his way. sucks.
As a parent, you want your child to be invincible, and to always have a confidence to stand the test of school age peers.
And as I am sitting in my room, thinking of all the great parent quotes I can give my son to make his mark in this world, he comes running in with a huge smile on his face.
"I've got it Mom!"
"what's that?"
"My show and tell- it's awesome and everyone will think it's SO cool!"
"Really? Let me see!"
And he opens his little hand to show me.... a rock.
"It's a baby dinosaur bone!"
"Awesome!" I secretly sigh in relief, off the hook for the moment.... but just in case, five minutes later I tell Cameron he is the most handsome little boy on the planet, and I love him.
Megan is... well, Megs. She is stopped by the elderly continuously about her blonde little curls and her pretty blue eyes, she knows her colors, her abc's, and is a total snugglebug. She makes people laugh all the time because of her nutty, quirky little personality. She can stare you in the eye as she tests the limit, trying to do whatever it is she thinks she shouldn't, all the while with a little smirk on her face. She is stubborn as all get out, not willing to budge until she is ready.
She loves to talk on the phone, and will steal mine or anyone else's any chance she gets.
They are both so different, yet at any moment I can pretty much tell you which characteristics came from which parent, and also how much they are alike.
They both love sleep- they've been awesome sleepers since birth. They both can go anywhere, just about any time, and be a great sport about it- meltdowns are pretty rare for both. They both love crafts and being creative, and they love puzzles and books. But they still would both rather be outside any day if given the choice, especially if they get to swim or jump.
And still I wonder, as much as I love these two, just what would a third baby bring?
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TROUBLE, that's what a third would bring.
oh I so know how you feel - this week I was moving my office and moved pics of my kids, each at 2- where did the time go, who are these big kids, and where are my babies
echoing laura! pushing fate, don't do it!! i know you prolly will anyway (boo!) but the good two you have right now are pushing the generosity of the man upstairs. the third might look like that red head kid from harry potter and have chronic body odor issues. i'm saving my energy to raise the one dylan has when he knocks up some chick in high school
awww, so sweet! isn't it crazy how you can always tell their *yours* no matter what...i love that! don't know about a #3 though...would be interesting!
#3 would be interesting (and a blessing!!) Good luck with your decision...
Kids are amazing....
Heather, I'll say what I said to you the other day...you know in your heart if your family is complete yet or not. If you feel that's it's not yet, then a new baby will bring joy and laughter and fun and an entirely new dimension to what you have now. Can you imagine my family without Jensen? It just would not be the same. As great as Jackson and Jordan are on their own, she adds a whole new facet to all of us.
If you feel complete the way things are now, then that is just perfect too!
Plus, Jensen keeps asking me why I don't have another baby...so maybe if you have one that would quiet her down a bit!
Yep, exactly what the person above me said. Well, only my kids have different names and all. haha! Good luck with your decision...hugs. :)
I can have Drew ready to come stay with you in a couple of hours so you can find out! ;) Really! Her little Hello Kitty backpack is being loaded as I type! LOL!
I've been having serious thoughts about a second myself.
Good luck making your decision. I have always wanted kids but cannot have any. It is hard sometimes but nothing I can do. I'm sure you will know what is the right choice for you!
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